{"id":6402,"date":"2024-01-13T17:01:01","date_gmt":"2024-01-13T16:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themptander.com\/?p=6402"},"modified":"2024-01-13T17:06:17","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T16:06:17","slug":"fokusera-pa-ratt-saker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themptander.com\/?p=6402","title":{"rendered":"Fokusera p\u00e5 r\u00e4tt saker&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jod\u00e5, men det l\u00e5ter ju enkelt.<br \/>\nDet kanske det \u00e4r f\u00f6r vissa men f\u00f6r mig \u00e4r det inte det.<br \/>\nJag har alldeles f\u00f6r l\u00e4tt att fokusera p\u00e5 fel saker.<br \/>\nEller, fel \u00e4r v\u00e4l kanske inte r\u00e4tt ord, men inte de saker som vore b\u00e4st f\u00f6r mig.<br \/>\nOch inte p\u00e5 det s\u00e4tt som vore b\u00e4st heller.<\/p>\n<p>Det \u00e4r s\u00e5 mycket l\u00e4ttare att fokusera p\u00e5 d\u00e5liga saker folk sagt eller som jag k\u00e4nner och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka \u00e4ndra dem eller acceptera dem som sanna eller n\u00e5got s\u00e5dant.<br \/>\nIst\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att fokusera p\u00e5 de bra saker som folk s\u00e4ger eller som jag kan k\u00e4nna ibland.<br \/>\nBer\u00f6m f\u00f6r saker eller konstaterande av saker jag jobbat p\u00e5 men inte tror gett resultat.<\/p>\n<p>Det \u00e4r n\u00e5got jag f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker jobba p\u00e5 senaste \u00e5ren.<br \/>\nDels att fokusera p\u00e5 s\u00e5dant jag kan p\u00e5verka, vad andra tycker om mig eller saker jag g\u00f6r \u00e4r till exempel ganska dumt fokusera p\u00e5 f\u00f6r det \u00e4r f\u00f6rbannat sv\u00e5rt p\u00e5verka.<br \/>\nHur jag agerar b\u00e5de privat och p\u00e5 jobbet \u00e4r saker jag kan p\u00e5verka, det p\u00e5verkar troligen i det l\u00e5nga loppet \u00e4ven hur andra ser mig. I alla fall de som betyder n\u00e5got, de som inte vill tro eller tycka bra saker kommer aldrig att g\u00f6ra det vad jag \u00e4n g\u00f6r.<\/p>\n<p>Fokusera p\u00e5 min egen fysiska h\u00e4lsa i den m\u00e5n jag kan med de begr\u00e4nsningar jag har \u00e4r n\u00e5got jag \u00e4r bra p\u00e5, ibland&#8230; Men det \u00e4r s\u00e5 mycket l\u00e4ttare att se de framsteg jag inte g\u00f6r eller inte kan g\u00f6ra \u00e4n de saker som faktiskt f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras till det b\u00e4ttre av tr\u00e4ningen.<br \/>\nLite av en motivationsfr\u00e5ga men ocks\u00e5 en inst\u00e4llningsfr\u00e5ga p\u00e5 m\u00e5nga s\u00e4tt.<\/p>\n<p>Sluta bry mig s\u00e5 mycket om saker och personer jag inte kan p\u00e5verka eller som inte bryr sig om mig blir mer och mer viktigt. L\u00e4gga den energi jag faktiskt har p\u00e5 det jag kan p\u00e5verka som ger n\u00e5got tillbaka. Det \u00e4r n\u00e5got jag verkligen ska sikta p\u00e5 fram\u00f6ver.<br \/>\nMen det l\u00e4r g\u00f6ra r\u00e4tt ont p\u00e5 v\u00e4gen d\u00e5 jag l\u00e4tt bryr mig f\u00f6r mycket om fel personer.<br \/>\nMen bara f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka och samtidigt f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka sluta l\u00e4gga energi p\u00e5 s\u00e5nt som s\u00e5rar mig till slut.<\/p>\n<p>Alla tips p\u00e5 hur man g\u00f6r f\u00f6r att hitta motivation och hur man slutar bry sig tages tacksamt emot&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6391\" src=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282-238x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"238\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282-238x300.jpg 238w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282-811x1024.jpg 811w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282-768x970.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045859929468587841334762589282.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 238px) 100vw, 238px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jod\u00e5, men det l\u00e5ter ju enkelt. Det kanske det \u00e4r f\u00f6r vissa men f\u00f6r mig \u00e4r det inte det. Jag har alldeles f\u00f6r l\u00e4tt att fokusera p\u00e5 fel saker. 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