{"id":5520,"date":"2024-04-07T16:52:44","date_gmt":"2024-04-07T15:52:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/themptander.com\/?p=5520"},"modified":"2024-04-07T16:52:44","modified_gmt":"2024-04-07T15:52:44","slug":"sma-saker-har-stor-betydelse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themptander.com\/?p=5520","title":{"rendered":"Sm\u00e5 saker har stor betydelse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ibland kan v\u00e4ldigt sm\u00e5 saker f\u00e5 eller ge stora skillnader.<br \/>\nB\u00e5de i hur n\u00e5gon m\u00e5r eller hur n\u00e5gon agerar.<\/p>\n<p>Ett enkelt Hej till n\u00e5gon eller kanske ett SMS med en enkel fr\u00e5ga om hur n\u00e5gon m\u00e5r eller har det. En liten tanke kan \u00e4nd\u00e5 visa hur mycket som helst.<br \/>\nDet kan g\u00f6ra stor skillnad.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e4nniskor, iallafall de allra flesta beh\u00f6ver f\u00e5 k\u00e4nna de betyder n\u00e5got f\u00f6r n\u00e5gon, ibland.<br \/>\nBeh\u00f6ver inte vara mycket eller tidskr\u00e4vande utan ett enkelt hur m\u00e5r du?<br \/>\nDock, ska man nog aldrig st\u00e4lla den fr\u00e5gan utan att faktiskt bry sig om eller ha tid och ork lyssna p\u00e5 svaret.<\/p>\n<p>En vanlig fika med en trevlig v\u00e4n kan g\u00f6ra stor skillnad f\u00f6r en hel vecka eller kanske mer.<br \/>\n\u00c4rliga, uppfriskande och trevliga m\u00e4nniskor \u00e4r alltid trevliga att umg\u00e5s med.<br \/>\nTrevliga samtal och skratt \u00e4r energih\u00f6jande.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6r mig skapar s\u00e5nt energi \u00e4ven om det numera \u00e4ven kan ge en social baksm\u00e4lla jag inte upplevde f\u00f6rut. Men det \u00e4r v\u00e4rt det f\u00f6r r\u00e4tt tillf\u00e4llen.<br \/>\nAlla laddar energi p\u00e5 sina egna s\u00e4tt.<br \/>\nVissa beh\u00f6ver tid f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lva f\u00f6r att samla energi, bearbeta intryck eller bara \u00e5terh\u00e4mta sig. S\u00e5nt f\u00e5r man respektera, alla \u00e4r olika.<\/p>\n<p>Men jag tror, tror ska p\u00e5pekas, att alla beh\u00f6ver ha n\u00e5gon som bryr sig f\u00f6rr eller senare, i olika grad och s\u00e4kert p\u00e5 olika s\u00e4tt. Men jag har sv\u00e5rt att tro att n\u00e5gon vill vara helt f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lv alltid. Men vad vet jag, riktiga eremiter finns nog de ocks\u00e5.<\/p>\n<p>Ibland beh\u00f6ver \u00e4ven jag total tystnad och \u00e5terh\u00e4mtning.<br \/>\nDessa tillf\u00e4llen har \u00f6kat efter Coviden och verkar inte sluta komma \u00e4ven om de \u00e5tminstone kommer mer s\u00e4llan. Men den k\u00e4nslan av total utmattning d\u00e4r jag inte orkar h\u00e5lla \u00f6gonen \u00f6ppna eller ens sl\u00e5 p\u00e5 n\u00e5gonting p\u00e5 TV, den \u00e4r inte rolig.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 jag \u00e4r \u00f6vertygad om att det som kan anses som en liten sak att g\u00f6ra kan ha oerh\u00f6rt stor betydelse f\u00f6r personen i andra \u00e4nden.<br \/>\nAtt bara str\u00e4cka ut en hand, skicka det d\u00e4r SMSet, ringa bara f\u00f6r att.<br \/>\nDet kan ibland r\u00e4dda n\u00e5gons hum\u00f6r eller n\u00e5gon dag, det \u00e4r jag \u00f6vertygad om.<\/p>\n<p>Men d\u00e5 ska vi m\u00e4nniskor orka g\u00f6ra det och ta oss tiden i dagens hektiska samh\u00e4lle. Tror det blir mer och mer s\u00e4llsynt.<br \/>\nS\u00e5 t\u00e4nk p\u00e5 era n\u00e4ra och k\u00e4ra, str\u00e4ck ut en hand, skicka en h\u00e4lsning s\u00e5 de blir medvetna om att de finns i era tankar. Kanske inte mycket f\u00f6r er men kanske f\u00f6r den som f\u00e5r ta emot det. Kostar s\u00e5 lite men kan ge mycket mer \u00e4n man tror \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6390 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316-236x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"236\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316-236x300.jpg 236w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316-806x1024.jpg 806w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316-768x976.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themptander.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/fb_img_17045860076245539275315125875316.jpg 825w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ibland kan v\u00e4ldigt sm\u00e5 saker f\u00e5 eller ge stora skillnader. B\u00e5de i hur n\u00e5gon m\u00e5r eller hur n\u00e5gon agerar. Ett enkelt Hej till n\u00e5gon eller kanske ett SMS med en enkel fr\u00e5ga om hur n\u00e5gon m\u00e5r eller har det. 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